A gay encounter

I heard the funniest thing today, my friend told me he

got molested by a gay. Muahahaha….I shall not tell you
who, this is to protect my friend’s dignity (but I
doubt he still got it after the molestation).

So this friend of mine went to Singapore for training,
and he’s staying in a hotel there. I don’t know which
one so don’t ask me. He said he went to the sauna in
the hotel, and there was this taiwanese guy gay
in the tub already. That damn fella ask him to sit
next to him in the tub and ask him to strip buttnaked
to make it more enjoying, my friend ma strip lo (his
own fault also la, ppl ask u strip then u also strip).
Then the damn fella keep on looking at my friend’s
aahhemm...anaconda, as my friend call it. Aiya lazy to
type la.you guys read the conversation yourself la.


@@@ = my fren who got molested

### = another fren who was at the scene

$$ = another fren whom they are chatting with



@@@ says:

like this

$$ says:

okie HE

$$ says:

hahaha

@@@ says:

he ask me sit with him in the tub

@@@ says:

i tot he just being frenly and wanna talk

@@@ says:

he's a sick ass taiwaness guy

$$ says:

hahahaha

$$ says:

small small tub?

@@@ says:

then he say i would be more enjoying if i go buttnaked

@@@ says:

not too small

@@@ says:

enuff for 2

@@@ says:

then i stripped lor

@@@ says:

then hor

@@@ says:

while toking to me hor

@@@ says:

he keep on looking at my anaconda

$$:

ha?

@@@ says:

then i sensed sth wrong liao

$$ says:

what ana conda?

@@@ says:

anaconda is the big snake under my waist

@@@ says:

then hor

### says:

i am in

@@@ says:

he ask for my weight and all

### says:

interview hi

@@@ says:

and say i fat and ask me excercise

### says:

then ...

@@@ says:

then he touched my stomach

@@@ says:

then hor

### says:

then...

### says:

faster

@@@ says:

he ask me y din go spa treatment

@@@ says:

and ask me ask my gf massage me

@@@ says:

then his hands come and massage my legs

$$ says:

hahahahaha

@@@ says:

then ask

@@@ says:

shiok or not

$$ says:

then?

@@@ says:

lan eh

$$ says:

what you answer?

$$ says:

hahahaha

@@@ says:

then came ### to the rescue

@@@ says:

then i quickly find an excuse to leave

$$ says:

then?

$$ says:

### also kena?

@@@ says:

###

@@@ says:

ur turn to relate our traumatising ordeal

$$ says:

hahahahaah

$$ says:

he pai seh to tell


sorry but......eeewww.....*pic stolen from the internet*

the moral of the story is not to strip buttnaked in
public places, anything could happen. Even guys
nowadays don’t feel safe going out..nabeh

which remind me about the biggest wedding this year,
it was the talk of the town, wedding of the year,
a wedding between 2 man, yes here in kuching.
well at least one of the man is now a woman.
it was all over the news, at least local newspaper la...
i got some pictures and articles, let me know if you want them.
After reading their story really feel that they are courages lo,
and wish them happy and gay always.

random post

With all the commotion over, finally am back to the boring life again. Yes, its that time of the year again, where you have to think as many damn good reason as you can on why your boss should give you good increment and an impressive bonus. Yes people, I am talking about yearly employee appraisal. My supervisor will interview me this Thursday and I have yet to prepare them. I guess that’s probably because I have not done anything impressive or anything worth bragging about. All I did was surf the net alot, forward a lot of emails, organize a lot of trips, bully train new employees, have a lot of tea breaks, hand-in-resignation-letter-forcingmaking-company-counter-offer-thus-give-me-higher-pay, mmmm did I mentioned I surf the net ALOT? Yea that’s pretty much my “achievement” this year.

Oh how I wish I could write down what I actually did instead of what I want my boss to believe what I did. It would make everything much simpler. It took me a long time thinking what are my strengths and weaknesses, I just can’t seem to make myself write down all my strengths in that column…..there’s just aren’t enough space!! They should really make that column bigger….some people really have a lot of strengths you know (me obviously!!)

Anyways, I just received the official offer letter from Intel today, ya finally got it, but well what’s the use, no point anymore. Can’t stop wondering, what would my life be if I took up the job. Would I meet someone special in penang??? Would I meet someone special who happens to be damn rich and thus does not require me to work anymore?? Would I see a car accident in penang, copy down the number plate and promptly buy a lottery ticket and make myself a millionaire??? I guess I’ll never know….damnit…maybe I should have accept the offer

I'm stupid....not entirely

yes..I am stupid. I rejected a 37125 annual income offer for a promise of "better next year". Yes, i am staying back here in kuching, my current company has decided to counter offer and the offer is no where near what intel is giving me, but i am stupid enough to take the counter offer, stupid ler....not entirely...you really think i am stupid mehh....i very "seng mok" wan...of course here got things that attract me to stay la.....but i am not telling you....but can't help thinking what if i really go intel....how would my life be.....but i have made my choice and so there's no point thinking abt it anymore.....hopefully i made the right decision...hopefully....if they "lou tim" me and next year they don't give me what i want then really i will go jump into the sea. I know i've been yapping and yapping about this thing for the past 1 week, many friends have given me their advice and thoughts.....thank you very much!! So this will be the last post about this issue.....promise!

More crap shit

damn....they really counter offer me, this gives me more things to think about, shit ass donkey!! the offer that they give is no where near what Intel is prepared to give me, but taking in the consideration of cost of living etc etc, both place is about the same. Damn la, hard to choose la, the damn pussy in me is out again, i was actually quite damn proud of myself dropping the resignition letter, but now with the counter offer, they are really testing my pussiness, if there is such a word.
so now i have to think logically, like a man.........yea....i can do it....men think logically...woman think emotionally..........damn donkey shit....can't think logically la, what the foot!! can anyone of you out there just knock me unconcious and faster decide for me??i'd punch you back but appreaciate what you did later. I wanna end this and decide on a path, don't want to be like this anymore, eat cannot eat properly, sleep cannot sleep properly, play also cannot play full hearted-ly, i go shit also think about this thing, I HATE MYSELF FOR BEING SUCH A PUSSY!

The saga continues

Dropped my resignition letter today, but it's not over yet. The saga continues, my supervisor wants me to stay and he asked me a perfectly straight foward question, what do i want so that i will stay. I told him my primary concern is money, there and that. He asked me how much, what's the minimum that I would consider?I said, after working here for 1 year, I would expect my salary to be higher than 1si freshgrad.
Eric said he will try his best to fight what i want for me, I'm not sure if he'll be succesfull, but sure as hell all of this hope thingy make me feel terrible. I'd rather settle it there and then, no more turning back and the "what if, what if" kinda thinking. Crap, if he really succed, I'm not sure I would want to stay, the people up there will have one kind of impression on me, ohh use this method to threaten us ya...never mind ...i will get you later. Damn, but if i don't accept then it would make it seem like i am playing a fool out of Eric. DAMN!! hate myself sometimes!! How i wish all of this commotion would end today, then i can concentrate on preparing myself for my new job. But the crazy ol' me felt a glimpse of hope, i might be getting what i want and be able to stay in my comfort zone afterall. crap shit! for the 1st time in my conscious life, i have no idea what i want when given a choice, so much for maturity.
It's freaking raining so heavily now, and i'm still stuck in the office, at least i'm all by myself now, almost. Looking around the office, is this where i want to work for the next few year???.......damn i have no answer.

the moment of truth, tomorrow i shall be handing in my resigntion letter. I seriously do hope i have made the right decision and won't regret this day for the rest of my life. Been quite tense today, was trying very hard to contact people from Intel, I want to change the date I report for duty, I go do my calculations and think that I should give 3 months notice instead of the initial planned 2 and half months, the half months salary in lieu is too much for me to bear. Finally, towards the end of the day i managed to contact ms wendy of HR, but she's not able to confirm it, she needs approval from my future manager.
Seriously have no idea what eric's reaction might be when he gets to know i wanna resign, he's been a great guy, good supervisor, sure hope my new supervisor is as nice as him. Also don't know whether will they counter offer me, and if they do how much should i ask for. Should i accept it if they do counter offer me. My mind is going through all this possible scenarios, i should prepare myself for tomorrow, make the right decision.
If I am really going, i will surely miss my colleagues here, they've been fun to work with. When the times comes, walking out of the office for the last time, I think i will feel the pinch in my heart.
Whatever the outcome is, I hope it is for the best. Wish me luck people!!

Headache

I got the offer.....I'm delighted but at the same time in dilemma, I've only realise it now that I don't really wanna go after all, it's the comfort zone, i don't want to leave my comfort zone, shit!
I don't know what I want, they've given me an offer close to what I requested and plus all this bonuses and such, but with my current company, I've got nothing but promise of an increment and a puny salary, but still feel like working here than there, is something wrong with me??
i guess the reason why i like here is the people, my supervisor, my colleagues....i'm so comfortable here, feeling so at ease and with little or tension at all. Also my home is here, no worries about food and clothes and such.
I'm in such huge dilemma over whether should i go or not. I have to make up my mind this week. After that is no turning back. This has got to be one of the hardest decision i have to make, and i have no idea what i want. Regret, thats the thing i fear the most, I'm scared that I will regret going over there and find myself not happy. At the same time, I'm scared that i will regret not going over there cause i'll missed out a possibly good opportunity and the promised increment & promotion does not come.....shit shit shit...i need a smoke...

Trip coverage: Sematan

As promised, i have managed to squeez some time out to update you with my trip to sematan( nehh the one where i got bitten by alot of sand flies wan...remember?)
went to sematan over the weekends with my colleagues, still the same people who went to the santubong trip, wonder why it's the same 6 of us all the time, other people in the office are just not interested in the trips that we organised.
Initially we were suppose to have snorkelling around Talang Talang island, but unfortunately the people at the resort say that the water is murky and you won't be able to see anything, so cannot go lo........@#$@##$%@ eternal damnation to the murky water, i was really looking foward to the snorkelling. As such, our activities were limited to only the beach of sematan.
Sematan is about 1.5 hours aways from kuching, depending on how fast you drive, i managed to reach there in about 1 hour and 10 minutes.
This place is getting more popular, and seems like real competition to damai resort. The beach is generally nicer but the downside is its freaking far away, you can get to damai in under an hour.
This is the 2nd time i've been here and i kinda like it, except for it's sand flies of course!
we started our journey around 10 in the morning, seb picked the rest of us up and we had our brunch before we set off. Reach sematan town at about 1.30 in the afternoon, bought ourselves crabs and lobster in sematan market for the night's BBQ....yum yum
Well it's the usual few things to do at the beach and we pretty much did it all.

1.dig a hole and bury someone----check
2.kick the ball around the beach---check
3.build sand castle/pyramid or watever you call it---check
4.go kayak---check
5.swim in the sea and try sit on the waves---check
6.catch crab---check
7.collect sea shells---check
8.BBQ---check

yup, we did it all....well it's a good get away from the hustle and bustle of the city and a good rest from the "busy" life in the office.
Don't know where to go next, planning on to K.K, but it's too early to say, who knows i might not even be in kuching anymore.
Well sematan is a good place to go, i'd recommend it.


the beach of sematan resort


cracking jokes in the morning


karen, wen and me....enjoying the waves


me,wen,syl,karen and buried colina...


best kayak partner in the world...


getting ready to kayak


don't you think they look like warriors coming back from battle?


wen being busy..


yes...it's no secret i have 6 hands


karen not wanting to get off her bed


colina "trapped" in a quick sand


MC-syl was there too


syl and seb showing talang talang island.....*sob*sob* damn murky water


our sand castle or is it a pyramid?


karen being the fortune teller, she says my future wife will be damn pretty.....make me damn happy


BBQ time..


1 last pic before go home

I hate sand flies

I hate sand flies......i really do, in fact i hate most insects, but most of all i hate the freaking sand flies, it made me scratch uncontrollably causing myself to hurt my own skin, it leaves disgusting looking big-red-dots over my skin, it made me wake up freaking 3am in the morning just to scratch my damn leg, and most of all it made me went to see the doctor while i am trying to maintain my personal record of "longest-no-visit-doctor". So far, i've not seen a doc for almost a year now and thanks to these sand flies, i gave in.
As of this day, i shall declare sand flies my enemy no.1
These sand flies really do give a nasty bite, you don't really realize that they are biting you until the itch starts to come, gosh i tell you, its so itchy I would take off my pants in the office so i can give my leg a good scratch.


eh?who's solid leg is this?


i hate sand flies


damn you sand flies


bad bad bad.....

By the way, in case you're wondering, I got these nasty bites in Sematan, it's a beach resort, went there over the weekends with my colleagues, will update you with the trip when i have the time. Been really occupied lately, just slightly free today cause it's a holiday tomorrow.

Played futsal with my friends today, hurt myself during the game, not trying to be a pussy but damn it hurts so much, you see the picture below, do you feel my pain??i took off my shoes because it became a buaya already, so i played bare footed and somehow i manage to do this to my self......how am i suppose to enjoy my long holidays like that ah?


painful you know...can't walk properly d